Intentional Growth

Intentional Growth

Change is inevitable.  Growth is intentional.  

Change occurs within us and around us, without notice or with notice, scheduled or unscheduled.  Some of us try to prevent change and some of us run towards it. Time changes at the ticking of the clock as the day changes from dawn to dusk, and back around again, each movement propelling us forward in time.  Length of day and temperatures change resulting in seasons, which leads to change in our participation of them, our activities and our responses.  We change from infancy to adult with many stages in between.  Change often occurs due to sudden trauma or unexpected results.    This change, often without warning, can be startling and often invokes fear at the unknown.  Personal change can be hard and its lasting effects vary due to the lack of intentional purpose it came with. All around us there is change and it is inevitable.

Growth on the other hand is intentional.  Intentional growth is to develop or increase on purpose. We set our minds to be purposeful about what we are doing, when, with whom, and how we are doing it.  In doing so, growth happens; a daily, perhaps even lifelong progression. When we grow intentionally there is lasting effect. The time and effort we put in is rewarded by increase.  Increase in muscle tone as we workout, increase in skill as we practice and apply, increase in self awareness as we learn about ourselves objectively.  Growth is intentional.

We don’t always have choice in change, however we do have choice in growth.  Each day we are given opportunities to grow, to be intentional.  I have a choice to be intentional about the foods that enter by body and the way I care for myself, the friends and influences I surround myself with, the responses I give to situations that come my way, my time, my work; I have a choice to be intentional about my growth as a person and my growth in Christ.

Ephesians 5:15-17, Passion Translation says, “So be very careful how you live not being foolish as those with no understanding, but live honorably with true wisdom, for we are living in evil times.  Take full advantage of every day as you spend your life for his purposes.  And then you will have discernment to fully understand God’s will.” 

In Ephesians 5 Paul writes with instruction as to how we must live out our faith.  He instructs us to be careful, to live honorably and with true wisdom, making the most of every situation.  Paul is instructing us to be intentional with our faith.  Paul has his own  intention in writing, and that is for our growth in faith.

In 2 Peter 3:18, Passion Translation, Peter writes, “But continue to grow and increase in God’s grace and intimacy with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.  Peter is instructing us to grow, to be intentional in God’s grace and our intimacy with him.

Growth is intentional.  Growing our faith is intentional.  Growing our intimacy with Christ is intentional.  We have but a choice to be intentional in Christ, to be purposeful in our pursuit of Him. Growth takes time and discipline, however its effects are lasting and its reward gives us increase.

As we are intentional with Christ we increase.  As we increase we grow in all that the Lord has for us and in our relationship with Him.

I Thessalonians 3:12, NIV “May the Lord make your love increase and overflow for each other and for everyone else”

Change is inevitable, but growth is intentional.  

When Today Wasn’t Planned

Somedays you wake with expectations…expectations that all will go as you planned…that the sun will rise and the day will move forward with ease for the most part…not perfect…just not too hard.  Somedays I look back to being young…I had my life planned out…the man of my dreams, raising kids with my mom by my side to grandmother them, the perfect job, enough money to not worry, and health….of course health wasn’t an issue…wasn’t even a thought…of course all would be well…of course I’d be healthy…I’d be that do it all mom and wife….juggling life just perfectly and with a smile of course too….   Sometimes life isn’t as we planned.  Sometimes life knocks us down and getting up is hard.  Sometimes events happen unexpectedly and throw us on a total different track than we planned to be on.  Sometimes we need to stop planning and just let God take control.  Surrender.  Sometimes God puts you at such a place that all you can do is surrender – the circumstances of your life become beyond your control.  The careful planning you’ve always relied upon is of no use.  You can plan and you can try…but you can’t control tomorrow and sometimes even the events of the day your in can’t be controlled.   What can you do?  You can put one foot in front of the other and with each step breathe.  Breathe and believe that there is more to the mess your in.  Believe that the God who created heaven and earth is more than capable of carrying you or holding your hand through your darkest moment and your darkest hour.  No…many of my days have not been planned as I would plan them.   Many of my days have been scared by sickness, lonely hours and filled with change.  Change that I didn’t choose, change that I didn’t plan and change that I couldn’t control.  Change is what I’m moving forward with.  Change is what I’m embracing as I let go of my planned agenda and grab hold of His plan for my future.  No…today might not have been planned as I chose, but today I will walk forward with faith in what the Lord is doing in me and in those I love.